Scott Marsh played six instruments. He made strangers feel like lifelong friends. He was “physically incapable” of being mean to others according to his dad and brother. He listened. He cracked jokes through chemotherapy and walked his dog between gasping breaths because, as his partner Jessica Murphy put it, “that’s just who he is.”
When Scott was diagnosed with stage 3 esophageal cancer in early 2024, his journey brought him repeatedly to C3, the inpatient oncology unit at Juravinski Hospital and Cancer Centre. What his family found there helped shape both his final months and the way they would choose to celebrate his life.
Oncology Nursing Day honours the irreplaceable contributions of oncology nurses across Canada. This year’s theme, focused on collaboration and innovation, speaks directly to what Scott’s family experienced on C3: a team that pulled together across disciplines, across shifts, and across the invisible line between clinical duty and human connection.
As with many oncology patients, Scott’s condition was complex and required highly specialized care. When his circumstances placed him in the emergency department, the family knew immediately where he needed to be. “Please get us a room in C3,” Jessica Murphy would say. “He has very specific care and if you could just get us to C3 I know everything will be fine.”
That trust was earned visit by visit. Nurses brought fold-out beds when family stayed overnight. They took Scott’s wish to live as ‘normal’ a life as possible to heart, letting the family transform Scott’s room into something that felt like home, with photographs on the walls, lamps, a Nintendo Switch, and home movies. “The nurses have such a great family-centered approach to care,” says Jessica Marsh, Scott’s sister-in-law. “They really empowered Scott and empowered us.”

L to R: Scott and his family at his 35th birthday, members of the C3 nursing team, Scott’s family presenting the funds raised by SkiddleyFest
“It was painfully obvious that these people were doing the absolute best they can, sometimes under difficult situations, to make Scott’s time as good as possible and give him the best chance,” says Scott’s father, Rob. “We always felt that everybody was trying to go the extra mile for him.”
Even when Scott’s prognosis changed for the worse, he was unwavering in his determination to seize every day, to find joy where he could, and fight for time and quality of life. “Our only job was to try and facilitate that,” says Scott’s brother, Tom. “And C3 understood the assignment.”
When Scott turned 35 on May 17th of last year, the family wanted to give him a birthday party. Social workers found a room. The nurses worked out a medication schedule that would let Scott attend. His day nurse travelled back and forth from C3 to the birthday room to administer his pain medication so he would not have to leave. Sixty people showed up to celebrate Scott. Family, friends and fellow musicians gathered, chatted, sang, played guitar and celebrated. Scott called it the best party he had ever had.
Sadly, Scott passed away in early July 2025. In the months that followed, his friends and family channeled their grief into action. “Scott brought people so much happiness and joy and generosity,” says his mother, Gay. Carrying that generosity forward felt like the right way to honour him.
Scott was a fixture in Hamilton’s music scene, and so naturally, the tribute took the form of a music festival. SkiddleyFest came together in just seven weeks, drawing hundreds of people, each with a personal connection to Scott. This gathering was a chance for his friends to share their love, their music and their loss. Together, they raised more than $15,000 to support the highest priority needs on the C3 unit, helping empower that beloved team to continue delivering exceptional care. Plans for a second SkiddleyFest are already underway.
Journeys like Scott’s are carried by oncology nurses whose specialized knowledge and training, clinical judgment, skill and compassion guide patients and families through the most complex and vulnerable stages of care. They are dedicated to addressing each patient’s oncological needs while caring for the whole person, not just the disease. On Oncology Nursing Day, we recognize these nurses for the care they deliver, and for the humanity they bring to it by helping patients like Scott live fully, even in the hardest moments.
